When will there be an update to 1.14.1?

Sooo i got banned recently for apparently spamming. I can explain what happened.
So im making a supersmelter and my friend wants to tp to me. I accept but nothing happends. I press it a couple of times and still. I continue on pressing the button and nothing. Then BAM, the server stops lagging and all the Tp accepts go through creating like 40 messages in a second. I get banned and the mod online doesn't really co-operate with my friends, said something like "Stop talking about the ban or i will ban you. (My friend)" I hope i will get unbanned since i have used a lot of time on this server
Ingame nick: Slege