Thanks for all the feedback :) I was worried about re-reading my post and seeing if anybody would even respond to it. WOW. I was surprised to see so many post and it was also viewed 298 times! So lots of people, not just me thought it was worthy of a look-see.
Hopefully more people will be able to post opinions here. Please just keep it pleasant.
I really appreciate R4iscool1 and rnc2001 breaking it down for me like they did. Even Crafty weighed in and said blanket kicks can be a warning to others and I was like "Yeah, I can see that." (it really did feel personal when it happened)
I really don't read alot of the chat box while gaming. I did want the opportunity to say I was not pointedly ignoring warnings. With several people talking about several different topics I don't even try to read all the comments in the chat box while playing. I think Bobo did a good job of pointing out what I didn't see to begin with, too.
Overall I appreciate those who actually read and responded to my complaint and what my issue was. Which (by the way) was that I felt VenetorEm had targeted only me without cause.
**please note the word "felt" is a past-tense word**
I do feel like Mr.Stupedous kinda understood how I had felt targeted but, I feel like he got more upset than I even had the chance to, over the semantics of the rule. Which, its good to see people engage in if it doesn't end in flames, ;P (thank you for trying to help me make my point, I am sorry you got mad)
Which brings me to a sub-point I didn't get a chance to make: Emotion negates objectivity.
I come here to visit, have fun, garden/farm, build stuff and have fun. It wouldn't kill the staff to relax a bit and replace their "ban-hammers" with a God Pick and go play minecraft and did I mention: have fun. The authority to kick and ban is supposed to be used to prevent problems to improve gameplay. I kinda feel like I have to avoid Venetorem because from what I have seen he LOOKS for reasons to kick people then he is aggressive about it. R4iscool1 says he is a nice guy and I should get to know him, I'm not sure what to think.
That being said I understand Crafty and Dawn's position that kicking for a reason=reason to be kicked. But if every single mod kicked Anyone Every Time there was the slightest "reason" the place would be empty. But they don't because there is objectivity, grey areas, and not every mod is on the warpath or antagonistic. For the most part it's a great place to play. Which is why I keep coming back. Its why we all keep coming back. I just think balanced objectivity is conversation worthy.
If anyone posts a reply : try to keep it rational and well thought out. I really would like to have a calm, adult dialog about this.