Using someones real name isnt sometging you should just do because you know what it is. Its something you should only do if youre given permission.
If i wanted everyone to call me by name, i woupd put it in my username

But as i said already, i didnt ban him because i dont like him, nor was it because i was offended. I banned him because i was informed to

I banned you because you decided to respond with a smart ass remark, and obviously didnt care about the fact i obviously didnt want you to

Because im DATING HER, not because i like her. Does tewaker or benji, or sirchristopher, or custard, or anyone else im friends with call me by name? No

Banned on the spit? I warned you in chat, remember?

That's not he point. The point is that Juli is free to use your name because:

A) She's your friend
B) She is staff

When did i mention she was staff?
Of course i let my girlfriend address me informally. That obvious

As i told grassling, i was informed to take action next time i saw him refering to someone by name. It didnt matter who it was, i wouldve given him the same warning. If it wasnt me, i would've messaged that player.

If he has responded with something like "oh, my bad" or "sure thing" or "wont happen again" that wouldve been the end of it

You say that people use it all the time, but i can pnly remember juli using it a few times (to my memory)

As i told grassling himself in private messages. The point was not that he used my name. Its that he used it (for a secomd time i might add) after he was specifically told not to address people by name
I was just going to give him a verbal warning, but when he responded with "Did I ask?" I decided he didn't need my genersity to let it slide a second time, eventhough specifically told not to

@SharpSerac while i wouldn't exactly say i'm friends with grassling, i disagree with his ban. from what i remember, julipukki has used venetorem's real name in chat before, and to dictate who can/cannot say your real name in the chat is ridiculous. i would not say that using someone's name counts as harassment as it is literally your name. information is only private if you keep it private, which i feel venetorem has not done.

Here's a thought, maybe i let juli address me by name because

1. I personally told her
2. Im dating her