Just wondering if theres a way to see when someone first started playing the server. I figured there is not but I have been curious as to which map i started on.

idk
there might be

You can see the date that you joined forums by looking yourself up on the member list, going to your profile, and clicking statistics. For example, I joined 10 months ago and made my first post a month later. Thats about as close as you can get to seeing how long you've been playing i'm afraid.

You could do that through minecraft-statistics.net up until around a month ago, I have heard that it will be up again soon.

I joined July 21, 2019. How do i know? I checked minecraft-statistics.net and saw my earliest record of me playing was on that day. Minecraft Stats shows your past activity on a server up to 1 year. After your first year, you will begin to see your earliest activity be erased, so good luck catching your earliest moments before times up :P

Why does the link take me to Wayfair lol

@MamaNeon Why does the link take me to Wayfair lol

Because it's got just what you need.